There’s more to giving amazing oral sex than first meets the eye. So learn how to become a pleasure pro with these 5 mind-blowing blowjob techniques that’ll leave your partner begging for more! But first, let’s go over some basic points for giving great head.
You don’t need to deep throat like a pornstar
The first thing to know is that you really don’t have to stick a dick so far into your mouth that you gag. We know, it’s a super common image in mainstream porn, but in reality, some of the most pleasurable experiences can come from stimulating the tip alone. After all, that’s where most of the nerve endings are concentrated.
Having said that, you can deep throat if it gives you both pleasure but the keyword here is both. The best sex oral sex happens when all parties are comfortable and feeling good.
Find a comfortable position
To avoid getting a sore neck or aching muscles, make sure to find a position you can hold comfortably for an extended period of time. One good oral sex position is for your partner to lie down on their back and for you to sit between or straddling their legs. This position makes you the one in control, prevents you from feeling suffocated as well as giving you the freedom to move around, reposition yourself and touch whatever you want (source: classiclove.pl)
Save the best for last
This is good advice for sex in general. By building pleasure gradually and saving the most sensitive areas until the end, you’ll create a lot of sexual excitement that will make their orgasm a super sweet release when the time comes. So instead of putting their penis in your mouth right away, take your time and stimulate the surrounding areas with your hands first, then kiss and lick around the penis before you go in for the kill.
With that said, let’s move on to the first of our super sexy blowjob techniques…
1. Try sucking
Sucking is a very popular way to stimulate a vulva, but it can also make a penis feel amazing!
There are several ways to do it. First of all, you can cover the tip of the penis with your mouth and suck. You can also play with your tongue by drawing circles on the tip to produce some pretty intense sensations. You can even put half the penis in your mouth and suck by pressing on the tip with your tongue. You can also suck while introducing more of the penis in your mouth so that your cheeks press on the sides to give them additional pleasure. Experiment and ask your partner what feels best. There’s no right or wrong here, just go with whatever feels good for you.
Sucking can be tiring after a while though, so just do it intermittently. And as we said earlier, choose a comfortable position to avoid neck strain and make it enjoyable for the two of you.
2. Use your hands and mouth
While our mouth is the star of the show when it comes to oral sex, don’t forget you also have some other tools at your disposal – your hands.
So as well as using your mouth, lips and tongue to suck, lick, and kiss, incorporate your hand(s) to hold the base of the penis and control how far it enters. You can also move your hand up and down or rotate it to stimulate the entire length of the penis.
By using your hand(s) at the same time as your tongue and mouth, not only can you stimulate many different parts at once, you’ll also avoid getting a sore neck from repeatedly moving your head up and down. As you can see it’s a win-win: more pleasure for your partner and more comfortable for you.
3. Surprise them with temperature play
It may sound counterintuitive, but playing with ice play can really heat things up in the bedroom! Start by gradually stimulating the penis with your hands and when it’s erect, start licking it and stimulating it orally. Then take an ice cube and put it in your mouth. After a few seconds, take the ice cube out (you can spit it into a small container next to you) and then put your partner’s penis back in your mouth. The temperature change will be spine-tingling!
Instead of putting the ice cube inside your mouth, you can also just wet your lips with it and rub your ice-cold lips on their penis. You’ll find that playing with contrasting temperatures like this produces some super stimulating sensations.
And if you’re really daring, why not leave a small piece of ice in your mouth and let it melt as you lick? It’ll be a pretty unique feeling for both of you!
And if you really want to surprise your partner, don’t let them see what you’re doing. Blindfolding your partner is a sure-fire way to heighten their other senses, so when you surprise them with an icy cold blow job, it’ll feel explosive!
4. Testicle Play
This next technique isn’t for everyone as the testicles are ultra sensitive for some, but if your partner does like their testicles touched, it’s a winner. You can touch the testicles with your hand, hold them when you lick the shaft of the penis and the glans, or you can also stimulate them with your mouth or tongue. Just remember to check in with your partner to ask what feels good for them. As we said, this area is super sensitive, so stimulation can quickly get too intense.
Apart from licking and stroking the testicles, you can also try putting them in your mouth at the same time or one at a time... Lick them, play with them and your tongue, press gently... Be attentive to their reactions and use their feedback to stop or continue with more or less intensity. At the same time, you can continue to stimulate the penis with one hand to increase their pleasure.
5. Don’t forget the perineum
If you’re both open to the idea, it can be very pleasurable to run your tongue from the anus to the penis. Spending some time stimulating the perineum before moving to the penis can also be a super sexy way to start an oral sex session. And there are so many ways to do it. Play with the flat of your tongue, the tip, tapping, flicking... find what feels good and let that guide you.
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